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India’s Confident femininity

25 Monday Aug 2014

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Discrimination against women has always existed in all cultures. It is wrong to assume the stereotype that women in Eastern countries are always oppressed.

For example, John F. Kennedy’s Catholicism made more comment in the USA that Fatima Jinnahs run for the Presidency of Pakistan. It was not considered unusual. Before Independance two women had been President of India’s Congress Party: 50 years before Margaret Thatcher led the British Conservatives. Women have led both India and Pakistan.

Yes, there are double standards. Originally that did not imply superior and inferior  but rather a woman’s role included enactment of dark mysteries. The politics of history and tribalism has since  distorted it. It seems that discrimination may be even hardest in the village where traditions are seen as the lifeblood of survival.

 Ideally, men may arrange the exterior world but in the Asian world where home is the most fundamental institution she is creator and mistress. The woman is all that is beautiful and graceful.

 In Islam male and female approach Allah equally. In Hinduism the role of woman has changed with the rise of Brahman power during feudal times after the decline of Buddhism, and again under Britain.    Add to this the layers of caste and sub-caste.  The Hindu laws of Manu a woman must obey her husband as a god even if he is a cruel tyrant, In contrast, Vatsayayana a writer of the Kama sutra said if a woman does not experience pleasure with her husband she could leave. She is an active participant in love making.

 Young men sent to courtesans, not for sex, but to be taught music, poetry. good manners and the cultivated manners of gentleman.  Trained in the 64 sciences and arts, including the arts of love. They were more like in Japans greatest periods, but just as the US invasion stripped to whoredom, so did Britian to India’s nayikas. They were not common whores.

Indeed the confident pride of many Indian and Pakistani women in their femininity makes many feel that Western liberationists are gratuitous slogan wavers of self indulgence that is too far removed from the harshness of life Asian men and women.

 Men and women are equal but masculine and feminine energies see the world from different perspectives.

Vive Le Difference!

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An Improbable Country called India

21 Thursday Aug 2014

Posted by opus125 in Caste & Social position, Indian History

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Indian Diversity

Said I one night to a pristine seer
(Who knew the secrets of whittling Time),
Sir, you well perceive, that goodness and faith,
Fidelity and love
Have all departed from this sorry land.
Father and son are at each other’s throat;
Brother fights brother. Unity
and Federation are undermined.
Despite these ominous signs
Why has not the Doomsday come?
Why does not the Last Trumpet sound?
Who holds the reins of Final Catastrophe?

 

Mirta Asadullah Khan Ghalib penned his poem in 1827 after a six month trip from Delhi to Banares. The Mughal Empire was declining and it seemed India was tearing itself apart. Britain was claiming large stretches of the north.

Ghalibs question seemed answered when in 1857. What the British called it the Sepoy Mutiny quickly spread to be what Indians call The First War of Independence.

Ghalib was in Delhi then, where the most violent fighting decimated the city. A cultured Muslim bought up with Mughal  refinement, he also received a stipend from the British.

“He saw more clearly than the British colonist did then or the Hindu nationalist does now, that it was impossible here to distinguish right from wrong, that horrible atrocities were being committed by both sides. Marooned in his home, he wrote a melancholy account of how ‘Hindustan has become the arena of the mighty whirlwind and the blazing fire.’ ‘To what new order can the Indian look with joy?’” (Guha: 11).

Britain won and Victoria was proclaimed Empress of India. The previous ad hoc administration was now run by the elite Indian Civil Service. The building of a massive rail network moved soldiers efficiently to quell trouble and sped up communication. This was also enhanced by active attempts to cause discord between India’s diverse communities.

It seems to me that India’s ancient polytheistic expression of the one God allowed a soft and fluid acceptance of diversity. India’s polytheism of the soul allowed for the shadow sides of our personality to be expressed openly, in symbolic form of odd and bad. I suggest that the rise of nationalism, which in the modern form developed from the French Revolution, has narrowed a terser view.

Ghalib’s question is for me personal since, although I now view India as home, my ancestors arrived from Australia in 1829 as part of the Britain’s 40th regiment. At first many British so loved India’s exotica that ‘to stop soldiers going ‘Native’ government attitudes hardened.

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By 1888 Britain was so entrenched few ever envisaged Independence in 60 years. That year, Sir John Strachey who became a member of the Governor Generals council l pointed out India was more diverse than the competing nations within Europe.

India was “a name which we give to a great region including a multitude of different countries’ he said. The differences were hard for Europeans to grasp. “”Scotland is more like Spain than Bengal is like Punjab.” However, by the definition at the time, these were not nations. They lacked a group with a distinct political or social identity.

“There is not and never was in India, or even any country of India possessing, according to any European ideas, any sort of unity, physical, political, social or religious” he said in lectures delivered at Cambridge.

While it was “conceivable that national sympathies may arise in particular Indian counties” but “that they should ever extend to India generally, that men of the Punjab Bengal, the North-Western Provinces, and Madras, should eve feel that they belong to one nation, is impossible. You might with as much reason and probability look forward to a time when a single nation will have taken the place of the various nations of Europe.”

That Independent India does exist extends from the vision of an elite debating club of Gokhali, Tilak and later Gandhi who sought to bridge divisions of culture, territory, religion and language in pursuit of a greater say for native Indians in their affairs.

British opinions divided. A prime mover of Congress was Scottish born O. A Hume. In contrast, when author Rudyard Kipling was asked in Australia of Indian Independence in 1891,  he replied “Oh No! They are 4,000 years old out there, much too old to learn that business. Law and order is what they want and we are there and give it to them and we will give it them straight.”

The idea of an Independent India was “not only fantastical in itself but criminally mischevious in its effects” claimed Winston Churchill in the 1930’s. Churchill was a lone voice warning against the rise of Germany, and thought Congress dominated by Brahmins. If Britain left “an army of white janissaries, officered if necessary from Germany,  will be hired to secure the armed ascendancy of the Hindu’ he said. “To abandon India to the rule of the Brahmins would be an act of cruel and wicked negligence.” (Guha: XV)

There were many who feared disaster.

As one tea planter explained “chaos would result if we were to ever be foolish to leave the natives to run their own show. Ye gods! What a salad of confusion, of bungle, of mismanagement, and far worse, would be an instant result.”

The barbarism of Partition seemed to show him to be right. Deprivation did ensue. But Germans did not come even though a few Indians thought Japan may help India gain Independence in World War II.

That “India could sustain democratic institutions seems, on the face of it, highly improbable wrote political commentator Robert Dahl. “It lacks all the favourable conditions.” “India has a well-established reputation for violating social scientific generalizations” wrote another American noting ‘grounds for scepticism of the viability of Democracy in India” (Guhu: xvi).

Perhaps this is where the naysayers were seeing only the surface appearance of things.

Indian politics is like its traffic. It looks chaotic and incomprehensible, but once you know the rules (and yes they are there, in a pecking order descending down from buses, then trucks down to pedestrians) you get around. It can be chokingly slow, but once the Indian juggernaut picked up speed it became a largely successful, as the world’s largest democracy.

Few realise that India cannot be characterised on her religious history alone.  As extensive as her religious literature is, her heterodox dialectic extends back millennia facing the difficult questions with religious, agnostic, and atheistic debate. Do not assume India is a land of unquestioned practices and  uncritical faiths.  Indian science and mathematics flowered in the 5th century BCE.

While tribalism does at times flare up, even the Hindatva call for a Hindu India for ‘sons of the soil’ has had limited success. What is chaos to others is India’s vibrant argument with life.

True, after 1857 Britain realised that to keep the subcontinent it had to turn Hindu and Muslim against each other. Exploiting division made Partition a reality and left distrust that can surface even today.

Here is the problem as I see it: With almost erotic intensity nationalism promotes ”my tribe ahead of yours”. The media, and its incessant argument add to this of course. Fear easily grips the heart, sends us into a short term spin, without little time to calmly consider the facts. With the fast changing news scape even experienced reporters have little time for  reflection. It is now harder for India, balancing a rapidly changing economy with her vast inequalities.  Yet call a return to traditional values will only become oppressive if forced from without. The spiritual dimension, that the subcontinent once cherished, included deep meditative reflection of our polytheistic’ psyches. The many truly beautiful spiritual people were not driven by social pressure to perform a ritual,  but were more like the poet Ghalib. Hardship and service taught them to know the hardship of others and to learn there humanity. However, enforced national, caste or religious prejudices divide. They tell us to condemn first, so we will not look into the yes of the other.

Yet, with all its potential for division India survives.

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Will India survive?

After monitoring decades of elections British journalist Don Taylor wrote in the Evening Standard of 1969 that while India had stayed united “the hey question remains can India remain in one piece-or will it fragment?”

With all her diverse languages, cultures and religions “it seems incredible that one nation could emerge.”

“It is difficult to even encompass in the mind – the great Himalaya, the wide Indo-Gangetic plain burnt by the sun and savaged by the fierce monsoon rains, and green flooded delta of the east, the great cities like Calcutta, Bombay and Madras. It does not, often, seem like anyone country. And yet there is a resilience about India, which seems an assurance of survival. There is something which can only be described as an Indian spirit.”

The future of the region depends on it.

I agree with Taylor’s  conclusion “I believe it no exaggeration to say that the fate of Asia hangs on its survival.”

Let us hope that the legacy engendered by Britain’s post 1857 policy of ‘divide and rule’ will not be allowed to slash apart the good nature of India’s diverse family .

When murderous anti Sikh rioters pillaged after the assassination of Indira Gandhi, few imagined the non aligned but Socialist India would have outlasted the Soviet Union.

India survives because it defies Western definitions of unity. India will survive if it retains its polytheism of the soul.

References

Anyone interested in Indian modern history will find Ramachandra Guhu’s India after Gandhi (2007, Macmillan, London) a magisterial reference.

A great resource of Indian issues is also Amartya Sen The Argumentative Indian- writings on Indian Culture, History and Identity (2005, Penguin Books, London).

The Evening  Standard article by Don Taylor was published 21 August 1969 ‘The New  Surprising Strength of Mrs Gandhi’ from Guhu p xvi, xvii.

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Are India’s fewer women singles happier than American unmarrieds?

14 Thursday Aug 2014

Posted by opus125 in Caste & Social position

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There are fewer single Indian women but they are happier?

We often express our values through symbols. Perhaps a US feminist may equate her freedom with the monetary choice to buy a car, of to wear, love, marry even sleep with whoever she wants.   An arranged marriage would seem barbaric.

Yet many in India are bewildered why the Western girls have their self esteem tied to being the super sexy home coming queen who lures the football star.

Instead, the majority of India’s educated women request an arranged marriage. In India finding your soul mate and marriage is not he royal road to happiness.

“Oddly enough, the first time I really became conscious of my singleness was in, of all places, England” wrote feminist intellectual, Urvashi Butalia, founder of the feminist press Kali for Women. “[I found myself] in a culture that so privileges relationships, especially heterosexual one, that if you are not in one (and even if you have been in one that may have broken up you are expected to jump into another almost immediately), there has to be something wrong with you. So I was always the odd one out, the one without the man, the one to be felt sorry for. And it always bewildered me, because I did not feel sorry for myself, so why did they? It wasn’t a nice feeling.”

It may seem hard for a westerner to understand,  but the positive image attached to celibacy and the arranged marriage system in India serves to liberate unmarried women from the self esteem trap.

The negative, asexual connotations of the English word spinster have no Indian equivalent. Of India, activist  Madhu Kishwar,  “We are still heavily steeped in the old Indian tradition which holds that voluntary sexual abstinence bestows extraordinary power on human beings.”  The English word spinster almost implies a person is defective.

We forget that dating, is a recent phenomenon, beginning around 1900 in the USA. Perhaps the much needed coverage highlighting rape and violence.    Yes there is discrimination yet in other ways, India leads by example.

“Single women in India face more overt discrimination, but culturally they are more accepted” explained author E. Kay Trimberger in an interview in Psychology Today. “Single people – men as well as women – face discrimination in rental housing, and single women in India are seen as objects of sexual prey, especially vulnerable to sexual exploitation and violence.

“The first Indian self help book for single women, Single in the City (2000) by Sunny Singh, gives much more attention to issues of safety than such books in the U.S. But psychologically it is easier to be single in India, because of cultural factors” she said.

Marriage in India is more highly valued, but its purpose is family ties, not coupled happiness. Compatibility between spouses is not linked to finding a soul mate, but is seen as the result of patient work, along with family support. As a result, single women in India are not pitied because they are not coupled.

Contrast that with a upcoming MTV program Virgin Territory with trailers of young people wanting to lose their chastity because “its hard being a virgin, sometimes.”

“A never-married woman in India is never assumed to be unattractive because arranging the marriage is generally a family enterprise” wrote author Sunny Singh in a private communication to  Ms Trimberger published in in Psychology Today,”So people assume that there wasn’t enough dowry, not the right match, irresponsible parents (my favorite), a wrong astrological chart and so forth.”

“Perhaps this is one reason that polls show that most Indians, even the educated, urban elite, still favor arranged marriage, although perhaps in modified form with some personal choice involved” added Trimberger.

For those who marry, expensive childcare, the bain of western working women, is not a problem in the extended family, or in a village where children belong to everyone. However, the cost is measured in difficult and meddling inlaws.

Comparing the 2000 USA, and 2001 Indian census reveals there are fewer single women in India.  Between the ages of 25-59, 89.5% of Indian women are married, as compared with 65% of American women in the same age group.

The “never married” account for 2.5% in India versus 16% in the U.S., while the percentage of divorced women in that population is 17% in the U.S. as opposed to a mere 1% in India.

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India’s Feminism

Indian feminists speak more strongly for single women than in the USA. Both womens move,ent began in the 19th century. Where World War II opened opportunities for western woman to work, India’s Independence movement won women opportunity.

“Most of us menfolk were in prison” wrote Nehru in The Discovery of India. “And then a remarkable thing happened. Our women came to the front and took charge of the struggle.”

The traditionalist Gandhi is an unlikely (but incomplete) emancipator. The Mahatma called women to no longer be “dolls and objects of indulgence” but “comrades in common service”, nominating Sarojini Naidu as Congress first female president in 1931.

Both countries had a seconhd wave of feminism in the 1960’s and 1970’s. Today India’s few women’s organizations create a nationwide constituency in contast the US has many groups focusing on distinct issues.

The All India Democratic Women’s Association (AIDWA) has nine million members and is the counties largest independent woman’s organization founded in 1981.

The issues of single women are within its top seven priorities. AIDWA’s Commission on Single Women includes discrimination of  “single, deserted and divorced women” articulating similarities between all single women, cutting across class and caste distinctions.

From the 198’s and 1990’s India has leds the USA in mobilizing single women. In 2008 5000 single women  marched in Himachal Pradesh demanding reform including free healthcare, land for poor single women, and pensions for older single women. It was led by the ENSS that represents single women’s interests.

In contrast many of the US feminists best known American feminists such as  Betty Friedan and Gloria Steinem    distanced themselves from distanced themselves from spinsters without providing an alternative model for life as a mature, single woman said Ms Trimberger.  In the USA negative stereotypes of single life over age forty – especially for women – are still strong.

When moving to India I became acutely aware that many values  I thought made me happy seemed irrelevant in my new society.  None of this denies  the historic atrocities of sati or the recently publicized rape cases. Elsewhere, I will write of foeticide, and cruel discrimination of young girls in a society favouring boys.

Societies have always pressured conformity, yet simultaneously those who successfully challenge tradition are celebrated.   Just as nature hates  vacuum, social values do not sit on one extreme without being balanced by their social opposite, especially in such a diverse culture as India.

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In praise of difference: Indian and Australian racism

09 Saturday Aug 2014

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Before coming to India I had to face the allegations of racism of Australians against Indians. There clearly was a problem. Indian nationals had been attacked in Melbourne  and initially Victorian police minimised the racial dimension. Indian born journalist ushi Das based in Melbourne, researched it and has spoken of the subtle pervasive White Australia/Anzac bias in Australia. She also pointed out some Indians exaggerated the stories for their own ends.

Now I live in India I see as much racism here too.  Communities that parochially keep to themselves based on regional taboos are quick  to praise India’s diversity. Many, simultaneously, reject any external ideas as foreign or imperialistic. As in other countries Indians may also judge on appearance, or even on skin colour. A darker skinned Indian from the south may be labelled “Madrasis”, a northerner may in turn be derided a “bahadurs” (commonly used for Nepalese male servants).

Sadly, while the majority of Indians live in peace, I have seen more violence in India than I have in Australia. Protests to quickly become ugly.

It is easy to pit once nations strengths against another’s weakness. It is harder to see that we all face similar challenges but the dominant values, or at least those given sharper political focus, shape how we face or deny our problems.

But as economies contract, it is easier to blame others who differ from the social myth of the time.

Arjun Rajkhowa perceptively observed in his article  Racism and the NE – Exclusion and prejudice:

“The ‘racism’ word understandably provokes a fair amount of discomfort since it presents an unattractive picture which stands in sharp contrast to the official “unity in diversity” rhetoric [in India]. And yet it is a little ironic that even as we fume with righteous indignation at the treatment of Indians in the United States or Europe, we are shocked when we are accused of racism ourselves.”

Also, at times exclusionary policies marginalise groups in different areas.

“Manifold exclusionary tendencies manifest themselves in northeastern politics and, for someone who is from the region, it is impossible to disentangle these from current discussions on racism. While it is important to interrogate the existence of prejudicial attitudes towards northeasterners in a city like Delhi, such questioning cannot be extricated from the larger context of the conceptualization of nationhood and identity within the northeast, for the two are closely imbricated issues.

If ‘Chinese’ is used pejoratively for northeasterners, ‘Indian’ is also used as a term of derogation in the northeast. It signifies a mainland culture that is derisible and unwanted; a relinquishing of common bonds. I have heard it used innumerable times to refer to shopkeepers and residents who have lived in the region all their lives – despite their established provenance and lifelong acculturation, they remain ‘outsiders’. Those who have lived in the northeast understand the implications.”

This last paragraph reminded me of disaffected Australian youth, children of migrants, restless because they fit neither with parents traditions or within the mythical White bronzed Anzac Aussie. Slip up and they are likely to be told to Go Home” to a land they never knew.

While laws are proposed to monitor or control the “illegal influx” of outsiders, I see the same hype used to whip up votes during Australian elections.

Also in India:

In the protests and the debates on media that have ensued, one of the recurring themes and slogans has been “We are Indians too.” While this is understandable as a claim of equal citizenship it is also a little disturbing since it casts a burden on people from the northeast having to prove their sameness rather than assert the right to be different. What then of the expatriate Japanese or Chinese community? Do they abrogate their right against non discrimination because they are not Indians? By framing the experience of racism within a limited rubric of citizenship alone we run the risk of obfuscating questions of national identity with questions of belonging.

It seems that both my homes have to face similar issues.

“The French philosopher, Gilles Deleuze once remarked that it is better to be a schizophrenic out for a walk than a neurotic on a couch — perhaps a bold imagination of our diversity demands that we be comfortable with our multiple identities if we are not to collapse into the neurosis of the singular.”

We need to return to a more pantheistic psychology, where the ‘gods’ of our psyche are duly accepted rather than repressed. In many ways does this, recognising deties in many temples. As economies contract world over I fear the rise of exclusionary policies that scapegoat those who do not conform to the current myth. Just as no one person is free of contradictions to be faced, there is no Utopian society.   We must face our ghosts rather than ban, blame or persecute.

We cannot keep blaming the British or Muslim “invaders” as if (for example) Hinduism or Christianity have not also failed.

The age of Me-ism is dying. Now is the We generation. Working together is a great thing. As long as the group does not become the focus of US verses Them

In nearly every area of politics there is much speaking but very little listening. We have to begin to listen.

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Marriage and the linguistic Divide  

04 Monday Aug 2014

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From the 1953 formation of Andra Pradesh the borders of Indian states were shaped by language: the Sanskrit based, or Indo-European language are found more to the north and the Dravidian to the south.

Now some Indians object to the Aryan invasion theory. Were Aryans a separate race or a groups of distinct nomads?  Europeans appeared to use the theory to justify their racial butressed with natural selection to justify their supposed superiority. Britain Perhaps southern peoples object to it because it seemed to vindicate upper caste – Aryan – Brahmins. Where in Europe Aryan became a dirty word, the Swastika  (not Hitler’s reversed form) is auspicious, and the word Arya means ‘Noble’.

It seems though northerners, or the Aryans, expelled the Dravidians from the Indus valley arrival of Aryan language. The division usually given is the Vindhya mountains rarely passed by the northerners. The exceptions were the 3rc century Maurya’s and Buddhism,  the Gupta’s of the 4-6th century CE and the 7th century Mughal’s.

For some reason violence is more a potent theme in the values and society of north central India. For example, researchers Dutt, Noble and Singh  point out that murder, homicide, dacoit, burglary, kidnapping and robbery, larger scale dacoity (gang robbery) and thugs (highway and river transport robberies) are more common in the north.

The North’s multiple invasions and the arrival of Islam are blamed for separating caste ridden rural masses and urban elites who took on Mughal court structure  an resistance wiped out so that mass support maybe more for a sage or rural pundit.

In the South there is greater harmony fewer invasions uninterrupted rule of Hindu kingdoms until 1646. Even the Deccan sultans of Bijapur and Golconda used Hindus on all levels.

Add to this the British imposed education system, favouring the Brahmin elite to help run the Empire. Empowering Brahmins further  polarised people.

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It is no surprise, then, to discover that marriage in north and south is also very different

The north follows a patrilineal family descent. Gotra or biradari rules, that do not permit marriage of a common ancestry are followed especially in the rural.

The rules extend a geographic distance, by preferring a partner from  a distant village.

Commonly, northern marriages  include a

  • Network of social interactions
  • Girl returns home for birth of first, 2nd maybe 3rd child or occasional visit but these become less frequent
  • Marrying strangers is preferred.  However there is more family tension and aggression and more authoritarian family

 

The South has a less  rigid, and patrilineal family. However, in Kerala matrilineal close marriages preferred in south For example, with an uncle,  niece, and cross cousin.

If possible, marriage is arranged within the close family and  a geographically close  spouse is preferred so that the bride is not dislodged from her close family connections.

Also, in both north and south India, Muslims prefer  close marriages .

vive le difference!

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India’s Only Catholic (Dancing) Queen

03 Sunday Aug 2014

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Western feminists are often confused by women’s position in India. A patriarchal society that seems to have ignored sexual abuse of female citizens has been ruled by Indian women  who have defied discrimination and can demand men touch their feet as if a quasi -goddess:  Sonia Gandhi, Mamata Banerjee, Mayawati and Jayalalithaa .

Uniquely there is Farzana Zeb un-Nissa (ca 1750–1836), better known as Begum Samru (or Sumru), India’s only Catholic queen.

A fair complexioned temptress in her youth, a widowed warrior queen leading a mercenary band and she was accused to be a witch in old age.

A Kashmiri Muslim, born to a concubine in 1750, she was forced to fend for herself after her masters death. A naunch, or dancing, in 1765 a 45 year old mercenary named Walter Somers, enamored by the 15 year olds ‘extra’ services, paid for her in gold placing him the senior role in his palace harem at Sardhana, in what is now Uttar Pradesh. Years later, on the 7 May 1781, she was baptized  Joanna Nobilis Sombre, into Catholicism.

We need to back track to understand India after the death of Aurangzeb, the last Mughal Strongman. For six centuries power in India had revolved around Delhi. For two of them, northern India was one enormous battlefield.

As Julia and John Keays wrote in Farzana: the tempestuous life and time of Begum Sumru,  “As soon as the season permits warfare, more than fifty armies launch campaigns to defend or attack, or sometimes just to pillage, friends and enemies alike.” Battle was the sport of men, and pillaging the wage of many.

Western powers had little in gold or jewels a wealthy India wanted.  But as Persian, Afghan, Sikh, Maratha and Pindari warlords aimed to rule Delhi, the West had developed new technologies such as the galleon, whose sails released men from oars to battle, and in India the rifle. In India new weapons were Europe’s keys for trade, Trained in Europeans battle, many skilled in leadership were lured by better pay among competing armies.

One such man was Walter Reinhardt of Alsace who changed his name to Somers. The French Compagnie des Indes Orientales failed to match the British East India Company’s success and Somers worked as a mercenary ffrom Lucknow, then Rohilkhand (near Bareilly), Agra, Deeg and Bharatpur and finally back to the Doab.

Duplicitous, he became known as ‘the butcher of Patna’ after switching sides, inviting 50 British prisoners of war to dine with him before having them slaughtered. Perhaps this is why some preferred to change his new surname to ‘Sombre’.

For 13 years Farzana was faithful to her brutish husband who died, of a ‘neglected head cold’, leaving her penniless willing all to his week minded son of a an earlier woman.

Chandri Chowk Palace in 1857

Chandri Chowk Palace in 1857

Farzana allied herself to her husband’s second in command who saw in her a steely resolve that could even be ruthless.

All his officers invited her to take charge of the army. A mercenary force of both European and Indian men and at least twice, and  at only 4½ feet tall, turbaned and on horseback she led her troops to battle. She had clearly more than her slight build and feminine allure to recommend her. As Keays could write ‘beneath the muslin were stays of steal’.

A Machiavellian with some unpalatable dealings in her story, she was a small but very significant political player. After catching two slave girls who set fire to her Delhi town house and stole property, she had them whipped senseless and then buried alive in a pit outside her tent.  Yet he ruled a remarkably progressive principality. She cunningly maneuvered her rivals until eventually, like the female Begums of Bhopal, becoming a faithful ally of the British East India Company.

A former nauch girl could count few friends among respectable company. Begum Umdaa, from a  Jagirdar Family also at Sardhana, was the exception, visiting Begum Samru’s Meerut home even after Umdaa married.

Maybe her youthful reputation inspired European paramours to court her. In 1793, a rumour she had married the Frenchman Le Vassoult caused a mutiny. Both fled and the Frenchman died of a self inflicted gunshot wound, whereas Farzana survived stabbing herself.

However, it was her military success that fuelled the rumour she had witchlike powers able destroy her enemies just by throwing her cloak. In the battle of Assaye, she annihilated the 74th Highlanders and a picket detachment commanded by a Colonel Orrock she withstood a cavalry charge when the rest of the Marhatta army fled.

In Mughal eyes she was ‘Jewel among women’, ‘and “Pillar of the state’, ‘Most beloved daughter’. The British East India Company considered her a threat the British policy of an undivided India. However, as Britain gained North India, in 1803, she successfully manoeuvred to remain an Independent Ruler of a large area of Sardhana.

She had saved Delhi from an invasion by a force of 30,000 Sikhs under Baghel Singh in 1783 and was regarded daughter by the emperor. When his blind and enfeebled successor, Alam II, faced the rebellion under Najaf Quli Khan. The wavering army were boosted when she maneuvered a small force of 100 men with heavy guns, forcing the rebel to sue for peace.

In gratitude, Alam confirmed her estate in a legal challenge from one of her deceased husband’s sons.  Later, her palace in Chandni Chowk, which still stands in Delhi, was built in a garden gifted by newly enthroned Emperor Akbar Shah in 1806.

She died at Sardhana in January 1837 in her mid eighties. Although she encouraged many to convert to Catholicism, the Church denied her Christian burial in the Sardhana Church because of her Muslim birth.  A monument for her tomb was allowed in her honour and her friend Begum Umdaa, married to Zafte Khan, then Jagirdar of Meerut, gave land for her cremation.

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“Sardhana Basilica Jitendra” by Jitendra Singh – http://www.flickr.com/photos/jitens/4586812809/.

Now called the Basilica of Our Lady of Graces, the church hosts  two annual pilgrimages in March and November when thousands come to bless the Begum and pray to the Virgin Mary.

While moderns debate what it means to be a feminist, Begum Joanna Nobilis Sombre was a fighter who  has already won her own battles.

 

"Sardhana Basilica Jitendra" by Jitendra Singh - http://www.flickr.com/photos/jitens/4586812809/. Licensed under Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 2.0 via Wikimedia Commons - http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Sardhana_Basilica_Jitendra.jpg#mediaviewer/File:Sardhana_Basilica_Jitendra.jpg

“Sardhana Basilica Jitendra” by Jitendra Singh – http://www.flickr.com/photos/jitens/4586812809/

Reference:

An Excellent review of Keays biography, inspired this article: ‘Dancing Queen’ by Charles Allen from Literary Review, Feb. 2014, pp. 12-13.

An interesting series of videos showing Begum Samru’s Chandri Chowk Palace, now owned by the Bank of India, is shown in its present condition at Delhislostmarvels.web.com.

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Destiny of Choice for a Modern Indian Woman?

27 Sunday Jul 2014

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modernindianwomanDo women never think beyond the age of 21? Don’t we do more than feel the this is all i want to be as if the future is closing in behind the walls. So why do girl fall the mystique of marriage when throw a career away?

It is an answer must we make for ourselves if we are to control our own destiny. As girls talk chirpily of love and family ask them in private and they admit unspoken unease of the question.

They don’t want to face a question those who know straight up seem to be the lucky ones because they don’t have to think about it. The engaged girls seem subdued, even a little angry – they know they will never use their degree. They say they will work in the community and keep interested in community issues, but its not the same. They will have no control of their destiny or of making society a better place.

It is as if femininity requires ignoring the question of your identity whereas to be decisive is to be masculine.

However, girls find that ignoring the question falls flat on their face in their  mid thirties when the last child is at school. Beings Sanjay’s mother is not enough. Suddenly, being Sandeep’s wife seems empty.

As Western consumerism invades India do women know who they are or are they chasing who they are being brainwashed they should be?

I admit to being totally stunned. “Brown is beautiful” I said arriving in India. “Why do you want whitening creams?”

Youth have always resented – while still loving – mothers who held onto their girls too tightly.  It took our own lives as parents to realise the aching pain of our mother own emptiness that protested the beauty of tradition because to admit it was shallow was to turn a woman’s whole life into folly.

Girls of the past took arts degrees and studied the beauties of poetry,  but soon drifted into the need to be popular. To be popular meant also being popular with boys – how else can you compete with the girls?

The creative or mental interests die – chasing boy after boy and feeling increasingly alone with oneself.

Perhaps Mr Right will fill the void ….. Then it was marriage, pregnancy and ….. Then you look in a mirror and discover you have become your mother after all.

Behind the facade of success, as The dust of work has filled the lungs and turned the songs of poor husky, the middle class talk politics and promotions, even the odd affair secreting whisky behind closed doors.

The choice is yours.  So how will you face the terrifying decision?

“Will I gave up my dream – or will I buck the social pressure and be who I want to be?”

However, the discontinuity of life’s role is only half the problem. What of the pressure to deny your heart aspirations in the first place?

Those girls who slid into their sexual roles as women had convinced themselves they did not have to choose. It seemed easy – but a decision put off is only delayed and waiting to be faced. It stunts our need to grow and face our need to live as fulfilled human beings.

The question of identity is not just for women only. Men have been made to decide early or be lost to usefulness. As the world changes their are fewer parental role models that the boys can relate too.

But why assume a girls biology denies her the need to ask the same yearning question? Victorian times denied woman the right to enjoy their sexuality, now we open careers to them and simultaneously crush the right to ask what it means to be a whole woman offering your entirety to the world.

Do not hide our women in a corner, allow them their identity. To be able to decide who we are to be is a question beyond once women. It is  a question of female identity.

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What is a tribe anyway?

25 Friday Jul 2014

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Growing up in the sixties the sense of pervasive change of a movement filled my mind the like the rush of a river. As I aged I realised life has many counter currents. It is not just one all embracing movement..

The buzz word now is tribe or community. Seth Goden wants us to market to our tribe. Pickup artists imagine a man with his harem of doting females. An ashram,  Mosque or Church may seem somewhat static, locked in the past. For they too want to preserve an image of their community.

What of the Adivasi of India or Australian Aboriginee? Tribal peoples see the world more organic, like rhizomes and trees fostered from the earth.

Politically, a Cold War sense of power is still there – us versus them. Colonizer versus colonized, liberated and past oppressor.  Colonial times? … And what is that? There is as much colonialism today in the diplomacy of trade.

The science of culture and society has remade itself out of loose concepts. These great metaphors may suit  certain cultures but hand on the thin air of popular consent. Culture is no longer primordial. The self versus other is now called by other words

We want to see ourselves as moderate. We avoid ideas of  the radical other, the primitive or uncivilised or barbaric.

Perhaps they remind us to much of our own societies shadow.  So we avoid our social periphery, use nice words and don’t want to be seen as ethnocentric.

Perhaps in trying to avoid the over emphasis of difference  and by rejecting an apocalyptic view of a disintegrating worldview, we are refusing to face our truth. We don’t want to admit we have dismantled the hunter gatherer, or that we are risking our own cultures sustainability.

Modernism needs to be critiqued – but its worshippers simply attack the other and want more of the same.

Why not ask how we can be both modern and do better?

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Sari’s, Servants and Social Status

21 Monday Jul 2014

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from Mukulika BanerjeeThe Sari, (2003, Berg, Oxford)

A beautiful sari is a delight to behold at formal occasions like weddings or India’s many festivals. Historically, dress has always revealed a lot about a persons social position. I have found no more complicated example that the tradition of handing down worn saris to maids in a quasi family relationship.

Consider:  The mistress of the house edits her sari collection. Perhaps an older woman is gifted too many expensive saris by her daughter.  She cant refuse them but as an older woman she prefers soften thinner clothing than the new heavier textiles.

But sadly a maid is rarely asked what she wants to wear, leading to misunderstandings and tensions.

The mistress no doubt believes she has discriminating taste but believes her poorer maid lacks taste ability to chose well, instead assuming the girl enters a store to buy a maids sari set by budgetary limits probably synthetic and not, she assumes, of cotton.

Rarely are the assumptions justified. True, a maid probably admit a synthetic cotton is suited to her work but would be delighted by a more delicate but not necessarily more expensive sari.
A maid must balance her mistress expectations with the village expectations, still held by her family, and the town where she works. Frequent harvest and life cycle festivals require her frequent return home, where gifting is an expected ritual. From the city, a village family probably expect their daughter to return from the rich city with classier gifts.
This is rarely understood by the mistress. A maid working in several homes may be the primary source of saris in an impoverished village!

The incessant demands of the village pressure the girl. Unfortunately the mistress may interpret this as proof the girl is greedy.  The young maid cannot return home to modern without censure, and yet if she returns home in to homely a fashion relatives assume she must be wasteful.

Mukulika Banerjee illustrates in her wonderful book The Sari, (2003, Berg, Oxford) illustrates the problem:

“A kindly employer had given her maid, Lakshmi, an expensive off-white Bengal handloom sari with a woven zari border. The maids experience in the city allowed her to appreciate its quality, and she treasured having it in her trunk. After some time she travelled to the countryside to visit first her in-laws and then her mother. But her disapproving mother in law and sister in law made her change it. They felt there would be talk in the village because it looked like an old garment, the colours pallid and seemingly faded. Lakshmi felt they didn’t like it because even though the sari had green, yellow and white stripes on a cream base with a yellow and zari border, it did not have any ‘designs’ or ‘flowers’ on it. Lakshmi felt contempt at the way a much cheaper and older sari, with loud flowers, met with more approval. She passed on the expensive sari to her mother who, being a widow, was unlikely to encounter such censure for its gentle colours.”

Another difficulty occurs because a mistress who dresses up for functions may want to relax into unstarched, sari a little unkempt. The maid will smartly dress for work which may threaten the mistress. She in turn ensures the hand me downs reflect the girls lower social status.

Another mistress may demand her girls to dress up to show the style and respectability of her house.

There has been a shift as maids now negotiate more openly for saris that better suit there needs. Some mistresses even giving money so the maid can by what she needs instead.

Though perhaps well intentioned the convoluted and contradictory projections of staff patronage remain.

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Lower caste men don’t admire the body of a Princess!

25 Wednesday Jun 2014

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In the past. heavily curtained palkis were a status symbol of Afghans, Persians, Turkey and Moghals. To spare them from walking, Hindu ladies of noble birth only ever ventured outside of the home carried on a palanquin.

In the hot climate it was considered perfectly proper for woman to dress scantily in the presence of family.

However it was improper for lower caste men admire a princess body. In the hot climate it was common for the ladies to be near nude behind the heavy curtain of the palkis. Why wear heavy public clothing behind a curtain?

Purdah means curtain, a word that in modern media is associated mainly with Islam.    It refers to public behaviour.  Muslim women are enjoined to draw the “curtain of modesty.”

Historian Samina Quraeshi (Legacy of the Indus – A Discovery of Pakistan: 113) quotes an aging lady to her grandniece “Guard your eyes. When visitors come, smile your eyes of welcome to them; but drop your eyes immediately afterward, so that your smile may not be construed as an unchaste invitations.”

 While the Burqa has made news in recent decades – I suggest elsewhere because of the rise of Nationalism expressed in some lands through woman’s dress – it is not the dress of the majority of Muslim women, where “figure-molding looseness” is not unflattering . Quraeshi describes the burqa as a device of anonymity and not modesty.

The burqa “is not the ‘purda’ of modesty enjoined on women.”

 So where did the burqa come from? Not from the African yashmaq but rather from princess in palkis.  To  remain in a palkis could be awkward so women carried  their own head to ankle palanquin.  The design soon spread to courtiers and scribes.

Now modern wealth mostly discard it, the burqa continues with some in the middle class.

Western critics of the Burqa often fail to realize that todaythe burqa is a political act against perceived political discrimination from the West. In both East and West, women’s bodies have been dressed (or undressed) by the politics of men.

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